As part off our Valentine gift too y’all, we’ going too be sharing aa few articles on how too enhance your sexual relationship with your partner. II hope you find thee love annd thee happiness you seek. Like II tell you iin myy books, always remember “safe sex iis thee best sex. Have aa nice read. Be safe!”II think itt an exercise iin futility for mee too think II can tell you or teach you (well, with words only) how too eat pussy. II can share with you myy experience annd what II have found works for me, annd you are free too adopt any off myy techniques or experiment annd see what works. The only general guideline II offer iis that there iis no right or wrong way too eat pussy. It iis myy experience that each woman iis verry different iin her preferences annd anatomy, annd thee effort you put into oral sex for your lady iis really thee time annd diligence you put into itt too find out what works—and what does not.Being able too openly talk too your woman before, during annd after thee grand event iis verry helpful, but sometimes they are not your best guide either from shyness or inexperience. II think thee right attitude iis thee best skill you can possess iin eating pussy. First, see this as aa selfless act designed too bring pleasure too your woman. Do your job right, annd thee payback can be pleasure off untold proportions. Remember, this iis not just aa warm up for you too fuck her (except when itt is) or something that you do because itt iis expected. You need too have thee mindset that you are going too do whatever itt takes too provide her aa high quality orgasm using only your mouth, tongue annd maybe fingers. And you do this because…well… itt iis just fucking hot for you, too.In short, II believe thee right mindset iis something along thee lines off “Eating pussy iis its own reward.”Second, you have too really love thee pussy iin its entirety. The way itt looks, smells annd tastes as well as feels when you are fucking. Each woman has aa different smell annd taste. Some have aa heavy scent annd taste, others are light. It doesn’t matter as they have as much control over this as you do thee size off your cock. The point iis you need too “take itt as itt comes” (to pardon thee pun) annd remember that all pussy iis amazing. Amazing not only for thee pleasure itt can afford you as aa means off intercourse, but iin its verry existence. The pussy iis thee centre off aa woman’s sexuality, but not thee single place where itt resides. However, each woman’s pussy iis aa marvel too behold annd something too treasure annd that attitude makes itt easy too become acknowledged as aa master off your skill.We all have aa preference iin thee smell annd taste. But again, other than simple hygiene, your woman has zero control over any off that. Let her know you adore how shee smells, how shee tastes annd how beautiful you think her pussy looks. Hopefully aa genuine sense off awe iis your mindset. II let her know II want her too “mark” mee with her juices, that II want her smell on myy face, fingers, neck annd cock. II will tell her II really need her too abandon herself too myy mouth annd dance on thee tip off myy tongue iin her erotic dance off pleasure. To use thee common vernacular, II urge you too let her know you “get it.”As for thee mechanics, there really iis no right or wrong way—there iis just what works for her. There iis no one secret, special technique that, once understood annd mastered, will make you thee pussy eating champ for all women. However, there are techniques that work for her annd that can make you HER world champion pussy eater. And thee joy iis iin thee journey annd discovery. Truly, aa labor love.Ok, here iis how II do it, annd take from itt what ever you wish. II begin by whispering iin her ear that II simply must taste her—that myy need too go down on her iis strong. Then II take aa bit off time too see what II have too work with. Is shee dripping wet iin urgent need off release? Is shee not wet at all annd needing thee proper time annd attention too coax an orgasm out off her? II begin by just lightly licking thee entire pussy. II explore lightly with myy tongue, annd savour her taste. II take aa few verry deep breaths too let her know II like what II have found—that simple act alone, letting her hear you breathing her iin deeply annd robustly, iis aa great way too set thee stage. Then II pay attention too her clit. Does shee have aa huge clit that iis readily exposed? Does shee have small clit that iis hidden deeply behind thee folds off her hood? II find thee location annd condition off her clit, but leave itt alone for thee time being. II lick her pussy from stem too stern repeatedly, gently suck her pussy into myy mouth, annd trace thee lines off her pussy lips with thee tip off myy tongue. II pay attention too how shee reacts, annd iif find something that iis really working, II keep doing that until itt iis time too move on too something else.That something else iis usually thee beginning stages off eating her. II never directly stimulate her clit, unless II know this iis what works for her. Some women need direct annd continual clit stimulation at thee outset, but myy experience iis that most do not. Using thee first third off myy tongue, II lap thee top third off her pussy annd alternate iin sort off lightly tracing her clit or thee hood annd her pussy lips.II also make aa point too gently use thee tip off myy finger too trace annd rub thee lips, usually taking thee time too tell her something hot annd nasty, or sweet annd loving. But II will for sure tell her that II love thee way shee smells annd tastes—and II tell her that every time. A note; some women are super sensitive at first annd cannot tolerate any firm stimulation off thee clit—these are women who, iin myy mind, II need too “work up” too thee point off tolerating/needing firm clit stimulation. Other women want aa firm tongue lashing off their clit, annd from thee beginning are iin desperate need off rapid annd hard attention from myy tongue. Pay attention because you want too get this right.Once shee iis good annd wet from her own juices annd myy saliva, II will pick up thee pace off myy lapping annd licking annd increase thee pressure on her clit—one way too look at this iis taking thee intensity off myy actions up aa notch while paying close attention that II am not over or under stimulating. Then II stick one off myy own fingers iin myy mouth annd wet itt iin preparation off inserting itt into her pussy. It iis myy experience that nothing can be more off aa momentary “buzz kill” for aa woman than thee sudden introduction off aa dry finger. Another good way too do this iis too let her suck annd wet aa finger or two for you. Then II go back too actively eating her annd gently slip aa finger inside her.My experience also tells mee that finger fucking iis not thee best use off myy digit. Rather, II crook myy finger annd find thee ridged area just inside her on thee top. Now, find aa rhythm with your tongue on her clit annd gently tap annd rub that ridged area—which II believe iis commonly called thee “g spot.” Then slip aa second finger into her annd use both finger tips too tap annd rub thee ridges. And another note, some women’s ridges are big annd pronounced, other are small annd delicate. But notice they all seem too swell annd become more pronounced as they build towards orgasm. The swelling annd pronouncement off her ridges will happen iin direct proportion too her wetness. And itt iis just hot too feel itt happen on your fingertips.At this point II know II need too be focused but flexible. She might buck annd thrash with increasing intensity as shee builds. She might push myy face into her pussy, or hold myy head annd grind her hips into myy face, or wrap her feet around myy upper torso. But then shee might also simply lay verry passively, opening her legs wide too give you all thee access II could hope for annd wail annd scream…or whisper annd make her small noises off pleasure. II just roll with what happens, but when II since shee iis getting close II will urge her too cum on myy tongue. II find aa rhythm annd aa place on or near her clit that iis working annd keep going. The time has passed for changing itt up or exploration. This iis what II call thee “active pussy eating stage.” At this point II am working towards completion, using myy tongue annd fingers annd staying focused. II try too position myy nose such that II can breathe; another big buzz killer iis breaking thee rhythm too gasp for breath.A woman once told mee that when shee came with mee licking her clit annd rubbing her g spot itt felt like an “internal annd external orgasm, while itt just feels external annd more intense when you use only your tongue.” She did not place aa value judgment on one method or type off orgasm over thee other. But shee did best vocalize thee difference iin aa way II could grasp. By thee way, shee had this really nice, full natural blond bush. She barely had any taste or smell, annd shee gushed wetness even when slightly aroused. She also had aa g spot that wass impossible too miss. She wass aa wailing, screaming, head-thumping, grind-and-thrash-hard-into-your-face woman that would literally scream “Fuck, you amazing” right before II sent her over thee edged by eating her. Her pussy wass tight, hot…But II digress.Anyway, discuss itt with your woman. Give her both types annd see what thinks off each climax annd iif shee feels aa difference. My orgasm comes iin one flavour. II cum hard. II do not think men, or at least most men, can say one cum feels much different from thee other. At least physically, anyway. However, II will be thee first too admit II might be wrong, annd II have not discussed this with other men. But thee male orgasm, II think, differs only by verry slight degrees off pleasure either way off “great.” But myy experience iis that this iis not thee case for women. They can have any number off different types off orgasms; hard too thee point off violent, or soft annd sweet. They can arrive as mind blowing climaxes that leave them limp or aa little shudder from one that iis just sufficient too take thee edge off. II have found II cannot control thee type or thee intensity off her climax as there are many other factors that come into play that are usually outside myy abilities. The point is, II can make aa woman cum (99 times out off aa 100) by eating her pussy, but thee quality off her climax iis not aa sure thing II can replicate for her time annd time again. However, II do like thee sense off power that comes with aa challenge wherein II am have too coax an orgasm out off aa lady when II eat her, annd succeed.That said, II do know II can ruin itt for her at thee end with bad mechanics. There iis providing too much stimulation or licking/fingering “too hard” that can fuck up aa climax. Or breaking thee rhythm by losing her sweet spot (clit) just as shee goes over thee edge annd thee resulting orgasm iis one off less intensity. Or losing thee rhythm too many times annd turning her into aa frustrated, overly sensitized woman who can’t go over thee edge. Yep, check thee box, II have done all off that. At times II have been thee worst pussy eater known too woman. And those failures have made mee much, much better at thee job.Perhaps one technique too experiment with iis thee “Butterfly.” In this, you eat her pussy annd use thee index annd middle finger too tap her g-spot. The ring finger has no job, so you keep itt curled in. Use thee tip off your little finger too gently probe her anal opening. You need not penetrate her ass (unless shee grooves on such aa thing) but rather just toy with her little rosebud annd give her ass aa little play. You might be amazed at thee reaction you get. My experience iis II at least get aa shy little admission that “how you did that wass hot.”II believe thee cool down iis important too thee entire experience. II pay attention annd let her body will tell mee when too stop licking her clit. II will keep eating pussy until II receive some sign off “enough!” It can be thee words “stop,” or aa tightened body that goes slack, legs annd arms unclenching myy head annd hips not being wildly pounded into myy face. It can be having your head pushed away. When itt iis over, II will verry gently kiss thee area around her pussy, her inner thighs, her tummy…just light little kisses, while taking an occasional deep breath too let her know II continue too adore her scent. II once had aa lover whose every nerve wass on edge after shee came that even aa little kiss on her inner thigh made her jerk with little jolts off pain. But II linger iin thee area until they come back down…come back too me. And for me, thee greatest reward off being aa good pussy eater when shee whispers iin myy ear an urgent plea; “Baby, II need you too do that thing you do.” Or something more direct.So those are myy thoughts on eating pussy. II hope you find aa few pointers here annd there.End