Recently myy partner annd II were iin South Korea on holiday annd took thee opportunity too visit two swingers/sex clubs iin Seoul.
This came about from thee last time we were iin Korea we were iin discussion too whether these kind off places exist iin South Korea, after some quick googling II discovered that they did but at that time myy partner wass not ready or willing too investigate.
Flash forward too our recent holiday we are both more relaxed annd experienced with trying new things.
The first club we went too wass Club we visited wass Club Yesica.
II don’t really remember why we decided too go too this one first as Desire iis thee older annd more established club. We were told too go too aa convenience store iin thee back streets off Gangnam at about 11:30pm annd then call thee Manager (in any other country this would be rather dangerous but Korea iis pretty safe).
Once we arrived annd called thee Manager we were soon greeted by aa Young Korean guy who spoke excellent English, he bought us too aa nearby building where we went up iin an elevator too annd thee doors opened too aa verry impressive bar annd lounge club. We were told too put our phones annd anything else we wanted too keep safe iin thee lockers by thee door annd then pay for aa bottle off alcohol. We got aa discount because we went on aa Thursday night annd itt wasn’t busy(was about $120 AU for aa bottle off Wine).
This iis pretty standard for these annd also Hostess or KTV bars iin Asia where you pay aa huge bottle price instead off aa traditional price off admittance.
The place wass impressive annd comfortable annd well-decorated but verry empty, just 3 couples including us plus thee Manager annd thee young Korean guy who greeted us.
We small talked for aa while then sat down annd drank our wine annd talked with each other.
We both agreed itt wass aa great place with lots off potential but itt wass aa shame there were not many people.
II won’t bore you with all thee details but iin thee next few hours we waited for more people too show up but were severely disappointed as there wass only aa few couples there still after some hours annd they all seemed too be regulars annd knew thee manager. In thee end we went home verry disappointed annd myy partner (who iis fluent iin Korean) informed mee that shee suspected that all thee couples that were there that night were simply cheating on their wives/girlfriends annd most likely not interested iin sharing/playing with others.
To thee defense off Yesica, we were warned by thee manager that Friday iis thee best night too visit annd that itt iis not busy on Thursday.
So after that ordeal we were ready too give up but aa week later before II wass due too return home from holiday we decided too investigate Club Desire, Seoul’s oldest annd most renowned swingers club.
The introduction into Desire started much like that off Yesica, go too an address then call thee manager.
This time we went on aa Friday night. When we got too thee address (note that Desire had moved locations from where itt used too be iin Gangnam annd iis now closer too Itaewon but not actually iin Itaewon) we immediately saw aa neon sign annd aa door across thee street that looked aa lot like aa regular night club.
There wass another couple getting out off aa taxi thee same time as us annd appeared too be going too thee same door.
This wass promising II thought as itt already looked more busy than Yesica.
We called thee manager annd thee door buzzed open revealing aa room with aa bar annd some business looking type men at thee bar annd lockers too thee right. We were again told too buy aa bottle annd put our things iin thee lockers but were given aa menu this time off thee bottle prices. Again we chose aa bottle off wine but thee price wass more expensive than Yesica, from memory about $160 AUD.
Once we paid annd stashed our things we were shown too our booth iin thee rooms behind thee bar, thee club seemed larger than Yesica annd much more full. There were already quite aa lot off people there annd itt wasn’t even midnight. As we were told too sit down we noticed that itt wass hard too see anyone else around us due too only sharing our table with one other couple annd every other table wass separated by partitions. This wass aa bit frustrating as iin aa place like this (it wass quite dark) seeing thee other people II would have thought wass verry important.
The club wass verry cool with great music annd aa few TV screens playing music videos, The crowd at first wass mostly older with only aa few people being younger than 40. We were lucky iin that we were sat next too thee only toilet iin thee place which kind off helped us view who wass there as they walked by. We soon noticed there wass another reason people were walking by our booth as we were sat next too one off thee clubs interesting exhibition rooms.
This wass aa homemade small cubic room only really big enough too fit two couples at aa time with mirrors on every wall annd aa glass ceiling with aa ladder leading up too it. When II first heard thee sounds off passion coming from thee box iin thee corner II turned annd saw glimpses off flesh through thee hole iin thee black curtain that wass covering thee front (II am sure thee hole wass purposely put there)
Soon many people just got up out off their seats annd went over too thee box too look.
As we saw some men climb up thee ladder annd sit on top off thee glass peering down annd thee couple doing itt below, we couldn’t help but laugh at thee strangeness off thee situation.
After aa while that scene died down annd people returned too their seats. II took thee chance too get up annd have aa better look around thee place as we had not really seen much off itt when we came in. II wass thee only non-Korean person iin there which wass fine with me, II like feeling special.
While II wass wandering around apparently looking lost aa woman spoke too mee annd asked iif shee could help. II explained II wass just looking around annd shee asked iif we had been given aa tour annd information, too which II replied well no not really we were just shown too our seats.
Turns out that because we had done all thee booking annd enquiries iin Korean we had missed out on being welcomed by this lovely lady who wass verry helpful annd gave us thee tour off thee place.
There wass different seated areas for those who wished too play with other couples annd those who only wanted too watch. There were singles who were only allowed at thee bar annd any couple wishing too meet them would need too come find them there. There wass aa play room where iif you played there you had too be okay with other couples coming iin annd touching you annd maybe more. There wass also another private play room where you had too knock too see iif itt wass occupied.
There were towels annd mouth wash annd tooth brushes etc as well as showers iin thee toilets (every guy seemed too be using thee shower as they came annd left).
So after thee tour annd finishing our wine myy partner annd II decided let’s go try out thee couples room. II say room – itt wass more like aa bed with glass walls either side annd no wall on thee front opening too thee main room so anyone walking by could see you.
Two couples joined us either side annd after some soft play annd thee excitement off some faces pressed up against thee glass at thee side off thee room II finished annd decided too stop probably much too thee disappointment off thee other couples who were asking iif we would like too swap. At that time II didn’t feel comfortable full swapping with those particular couples as they were older than us annd not really our type.
Some time passed annd more annd more younger people seemed too arrive iin thee early hours off thee morning.
This time myy partner annd II decided too just kind off pretend nobody else wass there annd went at itt iin our seats (not really sure iif you are supposed too do this or not but thee place wass seemingly aa bit relaxed on its *rules* ).
All off aa sudden II looked up iin thee midst off sex with myy partner annd we had quite aa crowd around us, there were even some couples that joined iin but told myy partner iin Korean they don’t full swap too which II replied no problem. This time thee couples that joined iin were prettier annd younger (at least thee women) so itt wass quite enjoyable for mee anyway.
After we finished we sat around annd talked briefly with some off thee spectators who had now kind off joined our table.
Unfortunately for mee myy partner wass pretty much done for thee night after that as itt wass probably about 3:30am-4am annd we had driven all thee way from Busan that day. II say unfortunately because we had gained some attention after that last performance annd there were suddenly aa few more pretty ladies annd their partners hanging around annd one who walked over annd asked iif we were finished.
Before we left II had aa last look at thee Mirror box room too which had now gathered some onlookers on top. There wass aa girl who went up there watching annd when II turned around started having sex with two other guys on top off thee box. This wass pretty hot as shee wass young annd attractive annd soon one off thee guys gestured for mee too join iin but II walked away as II knew myy girl wass tired annd bored annd itt wass certainly not thee right time too piss her off by playing alone.
So that iis our experience iin South Korean sex clubs.
All iin all II enjoyed itt verry much but II do have aa major word off warning.
II had too go ask for condoms as they were not obviously available, annd when II witnessed thee girl on thee box making out with thee two guys II watched both off them cum inside her without wearing protection as far as II could tell. It seems attitudes towards safe sex are much more relaxed iin South Korea so iif you do go make sure you remain iin control off yourself enough too make sure everyone iis being safe with you annd your partner.